Monthly Archive for April, 2009

Five Ways To Be Aware

There are many different ways to be Aware
You can plot a takeover in the dark
and “win” the election by the book.
To do this insidiously you require a “feminist mentor”
preaching hate, a few emails (leaked), a denial
of prior friendship, a firing, some tears and one
change of locks to validate your new status.

Or you can look beyond the shrill alarmist
verbiage of fear mongering,
and attempt to draw your own moderate conclusions.
But for this you need an open mind,
an MOE response, letters to the Forum,
at least two sides, courage, and an honest
discussion with your fellow Singaporeans.

Dispensing with kiasu-ness, you may, if you feel
compelled, stand up for your beliefs. But then you need
to overcome your comfort level borne through years of stability,
not to mention one too many multiethnic and multiracial
displays, a plague of middle class, inertia
and the “I have no comment” malaise.

In an age of Internet, you may uncover
and share information faster than your opponents
and tear down their paper arguments with one easy Twitter. All you then
require is a tsunami of ground support, two
decades of historic feminist work, a nation’s bloggers,
several organizers, a stake, and
a clear separation of church and state.

These are, as I began, different ways to be Aware.
Easier, direct, and far more satisfying is to
show up at Suntec City May 2 to
stand with your sisters, and win this fight.

With thanks to Edwin Brock and his “Five Ways to Kill a Man

How Not To Take A Photograph

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Help Me Help You

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Does anyone out there feel like you’re just catching up to yesterday?

Welcome to my world.

If you promise to come over to do one week of Ruby’s laundry, I promise to provide you with ample Ruby antics for one week of entertainment.

Starting…

NOW.

P/S You’ll notice as the video progresses that you will get a tour of just how messy our house is. That’s what I’m talking about.

Easter Is Another Excuse To Eat Candy

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I always thought Hallmark invented the Easter Egg Hunt, but I was wrong. It was Parents.

We invented the Easter Egg Hunt so we could be responsible for creating memories of Surprise (and Infinite) Candy for our kids, so when they grew up, they would pick up a packet of candy and remember how we used to hide candy in neon plastic eggs, so they would realize how much we loved them, so if it were, say, Mother’s or Father’s Day, ‘Darn it, I better head to Hallmark to get a card now.’

You May Have Noticed I Haven’t Posted In A While Because My Image Upload Was Ruined But Now I Seem To Be Able To Upload A Photo That Isn’t Flickr So Here We Are.

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Thank you for reading my title.

Because I Want To See Your Smile

I Haven’t Talked About Him In Quite A While



Brunch – Ruby, Dot, originally uploaded by jaydokken.

Ever since Ruby usurped Jay as the Center of This Blog, I’ve made only a few mentions of The Man, mostly in passing reference while I talk about The Rubes.

But today, Jay, today, YOU ARE THE STAR.

Wanna know who took this picture?

Wanna guess?

Wanna check out this Flickr stream?

Jay know Jay wanna.

Ruby Is A Rock Star

Only Ruby is fabulous enough to wear sunglasses at home.

T.I.R.E.D.

Round and round I go,
Spinning in my exhaustion
Need Spring in my step.

She Got Moves You Ain’t Never Seen Before

Watch this video because…

(1) Ruby is styling in her overalls.
(2) Ruby makes it worth your while at 00:45.
(3) Ruby says so.
(4) Ruby teaches us all about what it means to do everything for the first time, to enjoy and experience life as it happens, with curiosity and confidence; so as to develop our EQ appropriately and to make sure our ids, egos, and super-egos are aligned in the overall structure of our psyche. Plus those overalls are too darn cute.